Mr Nice Guy

"Nice Guys Finish Last?"

You know it’s true. The naughty boy gets the girl. Usually a drop-dead gorgeous woman who adores him, I know you have asked your self. How does that swamp creature get to have some one who looks like that?
Over Christmas, a spent some time with a person who is fat uneducated and in his own words an ugly git.

Yet he has enjoyed the most gorges women.

He is a bad boy and honest with women.
Women are not dumb; they have a great BS detector and realize that Mr Nice Guy is.

Selfish and Weak.

Your average Mr Nice Guy is usually a very emotionally greedy, unconfident and selfish low-level predator.

I have been looking around and discovered that most nice guy’s want to be liked and loved and talked about. Yet they seam to be ripped off the most and there best friend is there right hand.

Women will pick up on there weakness and exploit it.

Most nice guys have little self-esteem; they usually put others before them selves and are subjected to the whims of others who they are constantly attempting to please.

Let us get real what woman would want to mate with such a wimp?

At the first opportunity he will be off pleasing every one else and not her.

And should she mate with you god knows what they will produce, and she will have to raise it, while he is off pleasing others. Selfish pig.

No wonder most women do not want a nice guy, unless it is to manipulate them, or they are over 35 and want to have children with some one who will support them.

So if you are a Nice Guy and still reading this what can you do.

Raise your standards. Stop being such a wimp. Be honest. Get help.

Realize that your Mr Nice Guy attitude comes from a position of being needy insecure and selfish.
And do something about it.

Be honest, when you are honest with your self and with those around you will develop a much stronger and congruent attitude towards life and will over time remove the old habits of resentment and anger, and have more self respect and less depression.
These where some of the by products of your old habits.

You may be surprised to discover that people around you will also start to respect you more.

© Paul Hastings 2005

Paul Hastings is a Trainer in Percision Therapy for Duncan McColl.
A Consultant Hypnotherapist. A Licensed Design Human Engineer and a Licensed Trainer of NLP for Dr Richard Bandler.
Paul has a succesful private practice in Leamington Spa Warwickshire UK.
Web site: www.realsmart-hypnosis.com
e-mail : paul@realsmart-hypnosis.com