Wedding Counseling Pre-marriage Advice in Warwickshire
- Are You Getting Married?
- Thinking about Marriage?
- Have a Partner Who Wants To Get Married?
- Planning the Wedding?
- Thinking About Marriage?
- Have to Tie the Knot?
Then you need pre wedding counseling or pre marriage counseling
As a Hypnotherapist and Neuro Linguistic Programmer in successful private practice since 1991. I have noticed a growing trend in my married clients; most married clients have relationship problems, stress, sexual issues, problems with there children, affairs and general unhappiness in there marriage. If not down right depression.
Most of this can be avoided if you marry the right person and more importantly get married for the right reasons.
Popular myth says, “Couples about to get married are happy”, wrong: many couples do have reservations and concerns about getting married. There relationships are already sailing on troubled waters, before they are hitched to each other.
Are you setting your self up for huge emotional and health costs?
Due to family pressure, pressure from there friends, a woman’s biological clock or just being swept along for the ride. Couples still tie the knot. Many men and women tell me they woke up the next day after there “big day” and thought “God what have I done” One client started divorce proceedings after six weeks of marriage. She was a lawyer who had lived with her partner for some years. An intelligent woman, very bright, yet she had made a big mistake, or was it her partner who made the mistake?
If you are getting married or planning to be married, you already know about the preparation and all the work and costs involved. The months of preparation, planning and the cost.
How much time planning and research have you put in to your married life surviving past a few years?
- Have you honestly studied and researched what married life is really like?
- Have you asked people who are married if they are happy? Or better?
- Do you have the coping and communication skills need to communicate and maturity to negotiate with your partner? Have you learnt to inoculate against stress?
So what do I know about Marriage
I am not against marriages in fact I have been married twice and divorced twice, to two amazing women who I adored, loved and were my best friends and business partners. We were the ideal couple.
Do I regret the marriages NO.
Let us look at some facts.
- Average cost of a wedding £16,000-£25,000
- Most marriages these days last on average seven years.
- A switched on partner will divorce you with in the first 8 years.
- Women start most divorces.
- 54.6% of marriages end in divorce
- According to Norwich Union, the average cost of a divorce is £13,000.
- If you become successful, the cost can be £120,000.
- Most marriages are not monogamous.
- 65% of married men will have an affair by the age of 40.
- 55% of married women will have an affair by the age of 40.
So let us get real, your chances of your marriage lasting are slim. Unless you are well prepared and switched on.
Married life can be the sweetest and most lovely experience you will ever have.
Are you prepared to invest less than the cost of the average wedding photographer, to help your marriage last?
If you are, give me a call today
01926 332935
© Paul Hastings 2006
Real Smart Hypnosis - Hypnosis Hypnotherapy Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) and Huna from an exclusive practice in Leamington Spa Warwickshire UK Real Smart Hypnosis offers you a highly professional effective and individual service.
Web site: www.realsmart-hypnosis.com
e-mail : paul@realsmart-hypnosis.com
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