Will Your Girlfriend Make a Good Wife and Mother?

Will Your Girlfriend Make a Good Wife and Mother?

What a man chooses in a girlfriend is often very different to what you would want in a wife, and some times diametrically opposed to what you would want in a woman who will be the mother to your children.

It might seam strange to ask you’re self but do it any way.
Ask you’re self what you want and desire in a girlfriend?
Then ask does your current girlfriend do this for you?

• A girlfriend is often some one fun to be with.
• A trophy.
• Someone to spend time with.
• Regular sex.
• An ego boost.

Many girlfriends are a great deal of fun, but you would not want to live with her.
No way would you want her for a wife.
Many women these days have been raised with the notion of being a career woman, strong powerful woman, with equal rights and rightfully so.

What happens when she has to compromise and in certain situations supplicate?
When after years of putting her self first, being independent and having freedom, she has now to be part of a partnership, were only fifty percent of the deal is hers.

This can be to big a switch for many women to handle.

Also, realise that what a woman looks for in a boy friend in her twenty’s is very different from what she wants in a husband and father for her children.

Women will date one type of man, yet choose a very different type and personality as a husband and father.

A husband and father needs to be dependable, reliable, predictable, safe, kind generous, with a sense of responsibility.

Strange isn’t it that this is usually not, what a woman wants in a boy friend.

Many of my clients complain that there husbands are boring and work long hours.
Yet this is what they wanted in a husband, it improves the chances of the children surviving

This may be a good time to ask your self “what qualities would make a good wife for you?”

If you are planning to get married, this is a vital question to ask yourself.

There are some warning signs to look out for.

These signs are not pointed out because I am anti women, in fact, I love women and married women and women in relationships are a constant source of pleasure to me.

These things are pointed out so that you and your partner can have a wonderful relationship with love and pleasure and passion in your lives.
Raising lovely children that are a pleasure to you and all who meet them, so that you can grow older in a happy family.

Your girlfriend should only say positive things about you.
If she is already saying bad things you are already not meeting, her expectations about you. What will happen when you are married?

Your girlfriend should not say anything negative about men.
Get real you are a man, and if she does not like men, she will not like you.

Watch out if your girlfriend was raised by a single mother, who resented or has bad things to say about her old partner.
If this is the case, this woman will have all kinds of associations and parental neurosis installed by her mother. There may be hidden problems.

Your girlfriend should never use sex as a weapon to control you.
A woman who uses sex as a weapon is
• Manipulative
• Immature
• Have no respect for you as a man.

If she does this before marriage, what will she do after you are married?

Your girlfriend should not have negative attitudes to traditional female roles.
This is a bad warning sign, if the princess believes that every thing should be shared and she does not have to clean, iron raise the kids, you may have problems. Life is not fair.
Your girlfriend will have periods each month, and you as a man cannot have a child. There are biological differences than no matter what society has taught her will not change.

Your girlfriend should have no personality disorders.
This is most important.
If you marry or allow your children to be raised by a woman with a personality disorders, you  have not got your children’s best interests at heart.
You are not being a good father.
The woman will make your life hell, and marriage is difficult enough with out making the situation worse.

Your girlfriend should be finically responsible.
If she is not, you are facing big problems unless you are going to do all the shopping and handle the finances, most men seam to place the finances with the wife when they get married, yet fail to discover before hand if she is capable and proficient to handle money.

So what happens if you have discovered that your girlfriend will not make a good wife and mother?

You have your answer

Many of the ideas for this article came from visiting
http://www.NoMarriage.com
I suggest you visit this site and explore some possibilities, I get no kick backs from this site. Yet I do recommend it.

© Paul Hastings 2006

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